Fall Forum Asked, "What Stops If You Stop?"

Following the Oklahoma Institute for Child Advocacy (OICA) Fall Awards Luncheon, the winners pose with OICA CEO Joe Dorman (back row, far right). The winners are, first row from left, Seth Paxton, representing Paycom; Cara Carllson; Jami Jackson Cole; Clayton Rohla; Shannon Luper, accepting for Girl Scouts Behind Bars; (back row, from left) Lt. Ryan Woodard of the Oklahoma City Fire Department; Trisha Koelsch, accepting for Calm Waters; M. Scott Carter; Bill Anoatubby, Governor Emeritus, the Chickasaw Nation; Randy Turney; Scott Savell; and Dorman. The awards lunch was held during OICA’s Fall Forum policy meeting of child advocates from across the state held in Oklahoma City on Oct. 14-15. (OICA Photo by Ragan Franklin)
Over four days last week, the Oklahoma Institute for Child Advocacy (OICA) held our annual Fall Forum conference where we assembled advocates to shape a legislative agenda for 2027. This will be released in the coming weeks.
We also recognized our selected honorees at our awards luncheon who have done tremendous work to improve the lives of Oklahoma’s children, so thank you once again to each of them. Their work truly makes a positive difference for children.
We also were joined by Brian Bergman of North Star as our keynote speaker. His firm helps advise businesses across the United States in ways to improve their strategies, work products, or company environment. We were extremely fortunate that he could join us and share thoughts about a successful future for our individual organizations.
The question which he posed, “What Stops If You Stop,” was presented to us about our work and why we must make this relevant to those who believe in our individual missions.
For OICA, I dwell on this frequently. I worry about our state, especially because of the many statistics which show we are not doing fine for our children. I have read stories about what Oklahoma looked like for children prior to our creation in 1983, including the narrative provided about the horrific treatment of children from the book Throwaway Kids by Terry Smith (a member of our Board of Directors) and Bob Burke (one our honorees this year).
It took advocates calling for legislative change creating safeguards and reporting standards to ensure better treatment of these youth. For 43 years, OICA has worked with lawmakers to create policies which move the needle toward quality of care and treatment. If our organization stopped, and as we are the sole nonprofit statewide which focuses the entirety of our work on youth policy and outcomes, I fear for what might happen if we were not there to educate advocates and policymakers alike.
We appreciate our state policymakers for the work they have dedicated to many conversations in hopes of implementing positive legislation. OICA is engaged with several legislative studies this summer and fall and monitored others which impact children and families. Many good ideas will be coming in 2027.
Our team works each day at the State Capitol to help guide bills from our legislative agenda, providing updates regarding bills which need improvement or are simply bad ideas for child welfare overall. Our entire team is at the Capitol providing information to help lawmakers see what legislation would do if passed, or sometimes to show data where something has or has not worked in other states.
OICA also works with state agencies, both to raise awareness about the services they deliver, and the issues faced when challenges arise. We worked recently with several agencies to help them share information about how Oklahomans can cut down waiting times and get back onto services under the social safety net more quickly.
We also appreciate the opportunity to meet with them and share concerns from Oklahomans who are facing challenges to help them better understand when things need to improve, especially now as many Oklahomans have lost access to eligible benefits that help them survive.
If OICA stopped, this weekly column, which reaches thousands of Oklahomans each week through newspapers and our online newsletter, would go away, along with the information presented at our website, https://oica.org. Our efforts help educate and activate advocates to mobilize on issues, along with the action alerts which we send when it matters to help move a policy.
I ask those of you who work with a mission you strongly support, what would stop if you stopped? What would happen if your favorite nonprofit organization ceased?
OICA will continue the fight if you believe in our mission. We exist on support from caring Oklahomans like you; we are not going to stop fighting for children, and we ask you not to give up on us.











